Love is Abundant
Love is abundant, and every relationship is unique Relationship anarchy questions the idea that love is a limited resource that can only be real if restricted to a couple. You have...
The Warrior, the Martyr, and the Manifesto
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I have, in many ways, a martyr complex. This week, my task is to kick around thoughts about the Warrior archetype as a possible way to counterbalance the Martyr archetype.
Love Everywhere, but Sex Nowhere?
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I have been drifting more and more asexual over the past six months or year or so. Yet, when I think about romance and love, I am totally on board....
Asymmetric Love
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In an earlier piece, I wrote, "Unrequited love need not be painful." This is really surprising to most people. It was even surprising to me.
Friendship Vows
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I'm gonna argue that rather than abolishing wedding vows, the right anarchist thing to do is to make vows with everyone! Not the same vows with everyone. Not the ones...
Romantic Monogamy
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If we make a distinction between Platonic love and romantic love, does that fundamentally change what we mean by monogamy (and non-monogamy)?
Relationship Philosophy: Hot Seat/AMA
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Video chat: Ask me anything about my relationship philosophy
Uniqueness vs. Designing Commitments
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Some thoughts about the Relationship Anarchy Manifesto as it relates to sticking through rough spots in relationships.
The New York City Effect
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Everything looks beautiful, when you're young and pretty.
A Partner By Any Other Name
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On the one hand, labels clearly matter. On the other hand, something is what it is whether we name it or not. TL;DR: You may already be my partner.