May 10 2020 Feelings Love Everywhere, but Sex Nowhere? by pat No Comments I have been drifting more and more asexual over the past six months or year or so. Yet, when I think about romance and love, I am totally on board....
Mar 31 2020 Feelings Asymmetric Love by pat 1 Comment In an earlier piece, I wrote, "Unrequited love need not be painful." This is really surprising to most people. It was even surprising to me.
Mar 15 2020 Feelings Romantic Monogamy by pat No Comments If we make a distinction between Platonic love and romantic love, does that fundamentally change what we mean by monogamy (and non-monogamy)?
Feb 29 2020 Feelings The New York City Effect by pat No Comments Everything looks beautiful, when you're young and pretty.